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Book Study & Discussion

  • The Church of the Holy Trinity 316 East 88th Street New York, NY, 10128 United States (map)

Join us in Draesel Hall or online at https://zoom.us/j/8753617165 (for the password, type the numerals for eighteen ninety-nine, two thousand nineteen. No comma or space.)

On September 29, we’ll review the book and share our favorite parts or those that most challenge us.

A guide for our final discussion is HERE.

Guides for reading which we used earlier this month are below:
Guide for Part I
Guide for Part II
Guide for Part III

During the month of September, we’ll be discussing the recent book by David Brooks, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen (2023). As David Brooks observes, “There is one skill that lies at the heart of any healthy person, family, school, community organization, or society: the ability to see someone else deeply and make them feel seen—to accurately know another person, to let them feel valued, heard, and understood.”

And yet we humans don’t do this well. All around us are people who feel invisible, unseen, misunderstood. In How to Know a Person, Brooks sets out to help us do better, posing questions that are essential for all of us: If you want to know a person, what kind of attention should you cast on them? What kind of conversations should you have? What parts of a person’s story should you pay attention to?

David Brooks is a Canadian-born American conservative political and cultural commentator who writes for The New York Times. He has worked as a film critic for The Washington Times, a reporter and later op-ed editor for The Wall Street Journal, a senior editor at The Weekly Standard from its inception, a contributing editor at Newsweek, and The Atlantic Monthly, in addition to working as a commentator on NPR and the PBS NewsHour.

Earlier Event: September 29
The Nineteenth Sunday after Pentecost
Later Event: September 29
Sunday Centering & Meditation